move on

If you move on, you stop dwelling on a past experience, relationship, or feeling and direct your attention toward the present or the future. It often involves accepting that something is over and choosing to continue with your life.

Type

Inseparable phrasal verb.

Notes

"Move on" is an inseparable phrasal verb, meaning no object can be placed between the two words. You cannot say "move it on" when using the emotional meaning. If an object is introduced, it follows a preposition: "She moved on from the breakup" — the phrase stays intact.

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When Priya found out she hadn't been chosen for the promotion she'd worked toward for two years, she went home and cried. She let herself feel the dient fully that evening. The next morning, she called her sister and talked through it. Her sister said simply, "You deserved it — b you have to mo now." Priya made a list of things she could do ditly , up her resume, and booked a we trip to clear her head. It wasn't easy, b she stopped checking her work email obsessively and started looking at other opportunities. In , she fo on what came next.

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In April 1865, with the American Civil War nearly over, Ulysses S. Grant met Confederate General Robert E. Lee at Appomattox Court House, Virginia, to receive Lee's surrender. Grant had every political reason to humiliate the defeated South — the war had killed over 600,000 people and torn the nation apart. In , Grant of remarkably ge terms: Confederate soldiers would be paroled, allowed to keep their horses, and sent home without prosecution. He reportedly silenced his own troops when they began firing celebratory cannon shots, saying there was nothing to celebrate in the defeat of fellow Americans. Grant understood that the country could not heal if it stood petly in the wound. Lee's army stacked its arms on April 12th, and Grant immediately began focusing on reconstruction rather than retribution. His decision was not naivety — it was a ca choice to mo as a nation, trading the satisfaction of punishment for the possibility of reunion. Ev , it remains one of history's clearest examples of what it costs, and what it g , to deliberately move on from catastrophic loss.

To stop yourself from showing or expressing a feeling, or to prevent yourself from doing or saying something. When you hold back, you keep something under control rather than letting it out freely.

Type

Separable phrasal verb.

Notes

As a separable phrasal verb, 'hold back' can be split by placing a noun object between 'hold' and 'back' — for example, 'She held back her tears' or 'She held her tears back.' When the object is a pronoun, separation is required: you must say 'She held them back,' never 'She held back them.'

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Priya had rehearsed the conversation a hundred times. She needed to tell her older brother that his di comments had been hurting her for years. When she finally sat across from him at their mother's kitchen table, she felt the familiar tightness in her throat. For a moment she almost held back — smiled, changed the subject, let it go again. B this time she let herself speak. Her voice cr once, then st . Her brother went quiet. Ne of them had expected honesty to feel so much like relief. She had chosen, finally, not to ho the si truth.

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On the night of April 3, 1968, Martin Luther King Jr. delivered what would become his final public speech at the Mason Temple in Memphis, Tennessee. He was exhausted, ill, and had nearly skipped the event altogether. Standing before st sanitation workers — men who had endured violent intimidation for weeks — King spoke about threats on his life and said, with st calm, that he had 'been to the mountaintop' and was no longer afraid to die. Aides present that night later recalled that King w backstage after the speech, overcome by the weight of what he sensed was coming. He did not hold back those pr tears, th for months he had held back his deeper fears from the public platform, pr strength so that others would not lose courage. He was asted the following evening. Y , the episode reveals something true about ho : sometimes what we suppress in front of others costs us greatly in private.

To hold on means to wait for a short time, or to continue doing something even though it is hard or painful. It describes both a brief pause and the act of persisting through difficulty.

Type

Inseparable phrasal verb.

Notes

Hold on is an inseparable phrasal verb, meaning no object can be placed between the verb and the particle. You cannot say 'hold a moment on' or 'hold it on.' The phrase is used alone: 'Hold on — I need a second.' Note that 'hold on to something,' which means to grip or keep something, is a related but distinct expression with a different meaning.

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Priya had been studying for her nursing licensing exam for eight months. After failing the second time, she sat in her car in the parking lot and cried. Her supervisor, who had passed on her fourth attempt, called that evening. 'I know you want to quit,' she said. 'But hold on. You understand more than you realise.' Priya lo at her notes spread across the kitchen table. She reled the exam for six weeks later, studied ditly this time — out loud, with a partner — and passed. She later said that phone call was the e reason she didn't give up. S , she chose to ho one more time. Ev , she nearly withdrew twice that week.

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In the winter of 1914–1915, Ernest Shackleton's ship Endurance became trapped in pack ice in the Weddell Sea, Antarctica. Rather than abandon his men, Shackleton made a decision that defined his leadership: they would hold their position, wait out the ice, and keep morale alive for as long as it took. For ten months the crew lived on the drifting, slowly crushing ship. When Endurance finally sank in November 1915, Shackleton led all 27 men across ice floes and open ocean in a sa lifeboat to reach the unted Elephant Island — and then sailed a further 800 miles to South Georgia to get help. Not one man died. What made survival possible was the daily, unous discipline of continuing when quitting seemed rational. Historians of leadership still study those months as a masterclass in endurance. S , the crew held on not be rescue was certain, buuse Shackleton pe them that ho was the only real option they had.

To have a serious argument or disagreement with someone that causes damage to your relationship with them. After falling out, people often stop speaking to each other for a period of time.

Type

Inseparable phrasal verb.

Notes

"Fall out" is an inseparable phrasal verb, meaning the verb and particle cannot be split by an object. You say "they fell out over money" — never "they fell the matter out." When used with a preposition indicating the cause, the pattern is "fall out over/about + noun" or "fall out with + person."

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Priya and her flatmate Jess had lived together for two years without any se problems. Then, last month, they fell out over a simple household bill — Priya felt Jess had been paying less than her fair share for months and finally said so directly. Jess got de , and within minutes they were barely speaking. For two weeks, the flat felt un cold despite the central heating. Ev , Priya kn on Jess's door with two cups of tea and the actual bank statements pr out. Facts on paper, a a cup of tea — it turned out to be enough to begin ma things right. S , they never really needed to fa that badly in the first place.

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In the early 1840s, Abraham Lincoln and James Shields were both rising political figures in Illinois — but their relationship collapsed dramatically and nearly fatally. In 1842, Lincoln published a series of anonymous satirical letters in the Sangamo Journal mo Shields, then the Illinois State Auditor, as v , incompetent, and dishonest. When Shields discovered Lincoln was the author, he was furious and demanded a formal apology. Lincoln refused to give one he considered ad , and Shields challenged him to a duel. The two men actually traveled to an island on the Missouri River — Sunflower Island — on September 22, 1842, prepared to fight with cavalry broadswords. O last-minute mediation by their seconds pr bloodshed. The affair de embarrassed Lincoln, who rarely spoke of it afterward, and the two men maintained a fr distance for years. In , it is a vivid historical reminder of how thoroughly two people can fa — and how a disagreement, left without genuine repair, can es far beyond its original cause.